Moreover, it’s in your best interest to live your life in a way that brings you happiness in your moment-to-moment existence without effort…
and abandon any perspective or pursuit that has you feeling crappy in your moment-to-moment experience in service of some imagined better future.
Because out of the 3.5 billion women in the world, she is the most amazing, beautiful, perfectly matched girl for you?
And if you take on a different perspective, you will never act needy.
Girls do not break up with fantastic boyfriends because of an argument or a few mis-chosen words. This is not a problem that gets solved with a text message. What is really driving you to want to get back with her?
She doesn’t want to get back because you are not amazing enough to compel her to stay. And if you can give a good, hard look at yourself and admit that, you are a fucking hero.
It means that you allow yourself to feel OK instead of feeling nervous, worried, or frantic. There’s no amount of analyzing, probing or searching for signs your ex-boyfriend still loves you that will give you relief over worrying what they might or might not do…
It means you take on the belief that things always work out exactly as they should and The truth is, everything always works out as it should, but sometimes this can be hard to see in the day-to-day experience of life. The truth about people is that everyone is always going to do whatever they want to do, so it’s in your best interest to surround yourself with people who do what you want without any effort on your part.