When you let fear of loss and worry that you will somehow get it all wrong, guide the relationship, you will fail to improve life for yourself, her, your family, and life on this planet. In this way, his woman will become highly motivated to lend her powerful feminine nurturing and her inspiring sexy to his efforts in life, and in turn, contribute to her own highest good. What could be better than working along side each other rather than facing off with each other in an adversarial way? I am sorry to report, the current norm, we were all raised in is a set up for failure.
Most importantly, it doesn’t serve the children that are the product of people coupling up in all the many ways horny humans do, without much clarity around how to fulfill long term needs.
The result is that it is now scary for both men and women to do much of anything to improve life between men and women.
We have become paralyzed in fear as a culture, afraid to act, afraid to make the “wrong” move.
If you think you are already showing enough respect and offering a man all feminine essence you are capable of, but are NOT getting the sex, affection, and sense of security you feel you deserve for it, then I would respectfully submit that you may want to take a look at your definition of “nurturing femininity”, as it relates to HIS definition.
I think we all need to acknowledge that we are affected, even traumatized by, a long history of men’s abuse of power over women and not so long ago, a women’s rights movement that polarized this fact to an extreme.