No matter how good of an actress or how well hidden her dark secrets are, the undesirable and deal breaking behaviors will rise to the surface.
When the pain body does come out you may find yourself in a situation where you think it might be time to move on.
Its best for both people involved to not try and force a relationship that clearly doesn’t work and allow themselves the freedom to search for one that does.
“I’m not for everyone” and wouldn’t want to waste someone else’s time on a fruitless excursion.
When a similar opportunity arises we often try to make up for our past.
We believe by doing the “right” thing this time around we will somehow be able to let go of some of this guilt and shame from our mistakes.
My take on helping others is this: I will help anyone that truly wants to change.As I mentioned earlier in Part one of Biggest Dating/ Relationship Mistakes, the first week or two will be amazing and the girl will seem almost perfect but this is before her pain body comes out to play.People are very good at hiding their imperfections and faults that would make you second guess your choice to be with that person.Trying to make up for past mistakes Guilt and shame get associated with painful mistakes.It’s a human tendency to “punish” ourselves in an attempt to not make the same mistakes twice.