I don’t want to talk down about BM to my daughter but I am not going to sugar coat it either.
While I will never discourage my daughters from dating black men, I WILL encourage them to date ALL types of men.
I’ve given them nicknames, told stories about their escapades to other pet lovers. So when I’m trolling Instagram and I see you posting pictures of your pet, which you’ve given both a middle and last name, napping on your lap with the hashtag #momlife I need to break the news to you. The Pet Moms have allowed for a new lucrative market of clothing, strollers, spas, exercise equipment and even entertainment for their four legged family members.
I’ve taken them everywhere, nurtured them through illness and woken through the middle of the night to relieve tiny bladders. It is a modern trend that we crossed the line from ‘animal lover’ and ‘pet owner’ into ‘pet mom’ with ‘fur babies’.
It’s something that I have been concerned with for a while and since you have daughters I thought I would bring this question to you.
I am a BW and I have a daughter from a relationship with a BM. I don’t see them getting any better years to come and I don’t want my daughter to experience the abuse (physically, emotionally, psychologically) that they bring to the table.