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Be completely transparent with these mentors and with God, and ask for help in moving toward stability. Because part of what makes you so weird with women is the fact that you've got baggage that you're always subconsciously trying to hide.
They sense it — even if they can't put their finger on it — and it leaves them feeling slightly uneasy.
So I said, "If you don't mind me asking, what do you think this relationship is? I'm not sure where this relationship is ultimately going, but when I meet a woman who is as beautiful, intelligent and spiritually mature as you, I don't spend time with her so that I can make a new 'friend.' I've got plenty of those. I just want to make sure you understand that." "Oh," she said, seeming taken aback by my forwardness.
I'm just saying you need to evaluate what you know about her and decide whether there's something about her that intrigues you. But if there is, don't just sit on your hands and hope she figures it out.
A few weeks into dating my wife, we were talking on the phone when she mentioned that she had enjoyed "hanging out" with me.
In retrospect, I think we all could've used a good verbal shin-kicking to yank us out of our alternate realities.
There's no guarantee it would have actually worked (heaven knows some people certainly tried), but if I could go back in time and be the one to make the speech, here's what I would have said.