He may promise to leave his wife and keep on telling you to just wait for a few more months.
A married man often strings you for too long, while showing very small amount of commitment.
But if a dater presumes that someone’s marital history is a crystal ball of sorts, a shortcut to the hard work of figuring out what a relationship with someone would really be like, it’s about as useful as a Magic 8-ball.
There are just too many disappointments, disadvantages and even dangers that threat women who pursue such a course of action.
On actually being in a relationship with him, I realized I’d assigned far too much weight to what I knew, or thought I knew, about his first marriage.
Seasoned daters know this question matters and often note in their online profiles that they’re divorced.When men learn that I wed later in life and had a marriage even Hollywood would call “brief,” some assume I’m commitment-phobic, that I stink at relationships, or that I just wanted to get married before I turned 40.A more thoughtful examination of my relationship history would show that I had three long-term relationships from 1992 to 2008. Another lasted from 1996 to 2001 and was ultimately more significant than my marriage.A relationship reflects the dynamic between two people, so once you change the people, you change the dynamic.I got married at 39 and left my husband 10 months later.