Attached lovers enjoy stability, are more sensitive to the feelings of one another and evolve their relationship to a trusting friendship.Oxytocin seems to trigger the creation of deep feelings and the foundation for love and trust.The combination of the explosion of these three adrenline-like neurochemicals is what gives us that sense of infatuation (chemistry) that makes new lovers feel euphoric and energized, float on air and allows them to talk incessantly and make love all night.Pheromone-laced potions make a usually unattractive woman so desirable she couldnt keep guys away at the bar.Dating services, web sites, lonely hearts columns and magazines are brimming with the lovelorn looking for love lost.Even behind the proliferation of sex, when you look close youll find the underpinnings of love. Its the only reason to get out of bed in the morning, they think about it day and night.During orgasm, oxytocin levels rise three to five-fold for men.
Chemicals like oxytocin, released when cuddling and during orgasm, help lovers get used to each other, relax, calm the mind, kill pain and reduce anxiety.
Prepare an altar with sacred items that represent your life and the people you have loved and who have loved you. Envision all the love you ever knew and realize that it exists at this moment for you. Dont stuff yourself or youll drowse and diminish your episode of romance. Take your time and savor every bite; appreciate its aroma, taste and texture. To better understand ourselves and relationships, perhaps we should take a look at the nature of love.
Clean and organize with the love and excitement usually reserved for another person. Draw a bubble bath, water on the hot side (as it will set a while before you get in). Open to the divine spirit within and the universal consciousness without, sanctify unity, harmony and balance. Treat yourself to a variety of interesting and stimulating flavors. Check the bath waiting; it should be the perfect temperature by now. Make every action a sacred ritual for you as both giver and receiver, divinity and devotee. Lightly massage your entire body and pleasure your genitals by hand, toys or a stream of water from a hose attached to your bath faucet. Theres an old saying: There once was a man who was looking for the perfect woman. Love, one of lifes greatest mysteries, has been the subject of story-telling, movies, song, books and myth since the creation of man.
But on this date, youll pamper yourself rather than someone else. Not everyone is a model or playmate and your true soul mate will more than likely not fall in that category.
When the day of your date has arrives, call your favorite restaurant early in the day and have it prepare your favorite meal to deliver or be ready for you to pick up for your date with yourself that evening. Even if they do at this time, we all age and lose our looks to some degree.