A Tantric Date With Yourself Reserve time on your calendar for a date with yourself. In order to be ready for your soul mate you must be open to recognizing her or him when they show up.Look forward to that day to be alone with yourself as you would a date with another. Sometimes they may not look or act the way you imagined them to be.Prepare an altar with sacred items that represent your life and the people you have loved and who have loved you. Envision all the love you ever knew and realize that it exists at this moment for you. Dont stuff yourself or youll drowse and diminish your episode of romance. Take your time and savor every bite; appreciate its aroma, taste and texture. To better understand ourselves and relationships, perhaps we should take a look at the nature of love.Clean and organize with the love and excitement usually reserved for another person. Draw a bubble bath, water on the hot side (as it will set a while before you get in). Open to the divine spirit within and the universal consciousness without, sanctify unity, harmony and balance. Treat yourself to a variety of interesting and stimulating flavors. Check the bath waiting; it should be the perfect temperature by now. Make every action a sacred ritual for you as both giver and receiver, divinity and devotee. Lightly massage your entire body and pleasure your genitals by hand, toys or a stream of water from a hose attached to your bath faucet. Theres an old saying: There once was a man who was looking for the perfect woman. Love, one of lifes greatest mysteries, has been the subject of story-telling, movies, song, books and myth since the creation of man.The release of oxytocin during female orgasm induces uterine contractions which can help transport the sperm towards the egg.Oxytocin, released during lovemaking increases fertility and the likelihood of conception.The combination of the explosion of these three adrenline-like neurochemicals is what gives us that sense of infatuation (chemistry) that makes new lovers feel euphoric and energized, float on air and allows them to talk incessantly and make love all night.
Use this as a model and be creative and design something special just for you. Continue stimulating yourself through several orgasms, then several more. When youre finished, hug and kiss yourself goodnight. Bringing In Your Soul Mate There's an old saying, "When the student is ready the teacher will appear." The same applies to soul mates.
If so, you neednt wait for another lover before you love yourself as your own beloved.
How to Practice Tantric Sex Without a Steady Partner Love yourself, accept who you are and become more comfortable with you while youre single or waiting for your soul mate.
Set a fine, elegant table with linen, tablecloth and nice china. Envision the chakras and imagine energy moving from the base up the crown. Bring yourself to the height of orgasm then purposely pull back the energy and stop the orgasm. Men, stimulate your lingam till you almost ejaculate. Visualize bringing energy up through all your chakras, out your crown and pull energy back through your base. like the song says, "Young and beautiful, someday your looks will be gone". Are you sufficiently healed from your childhood traumas and other relationships in order to fully appreciate your soul mate when they arrive and treat them with the love and respect they deserve?
Transform your room into a love temple with candles, incense, attractive art and cloth, music, aphrodisiacs and sacraments of your choice. Dedicate this lovemaking to yourself, to your personal healing and growth. See the kundalini energy coiled in your coccyx, like a snake at the bottom of a basket waiting for the lid to be removed. Youre teaching yourself about your body and how it responds, what it likes. Notice when you are about to go over the edge then dont go there. Will you love your soul mate at all stages of their life? Many times we find our soul mates only to lose them because were running the same dysfunctional number we did with other lovers, friends and family.