“When men see beautiful women, they are more concentrated on how she looks because they want to ‘have’ her, and so they don’t want to go deeper and get to know her,” says Isabell Giardini, a 22-year-old Italian beauty signed with Major Models.“And that’s why at the end of a date they wonder, ‘Oh that girl is so beautiful but so empty.’ That’s happened to me often.” Others say the stereotypes about pretty people being shallow are true, even if they’re hotties themselves.When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.“I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper East Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair.
Rochkind is equally enthusiastic about his decision to give up high-maintenance hotties.
“As a person who’s always been complimented on [my] ‘stunning beauty’ …
I’d been searching for a ‘hot’ guy to match the label I had always been given,” says Young.
“I still want someone who’s in decent shape, but it’s more important to find a guy who’s goal-oriented,” she says.
“[Beautiful men] are very into their bodies and don’t really care about people that much, or make time for their family.” Megan Young, a 23-year-old p.r.