For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare.Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names.More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that, women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.
Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there.
On the street, I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job.
Generally, these women will be dressed and fashionable.
I speak Spanish fluently; therefore, I can’t play the “…no jaaabl0 Españoler mucho bueno. I’m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish.
It is hard for one’s true personality to translate when speaking another language, but luckily I am a fluent Spanish speaker and have learned enough Paisa slang to be my witty self.