Plus, some of us have difficult relationships with food. I don't know about you, but I can put two tablespoons of dressing on a piece of lettuce at home. Friend, if I'm not telling you that you'd look cuter if you cut your hair, plucked your eyebrows, or took off that hideous velour track suit, you don't need to tell me how cute I'll look once I weigh 150 pounds and can fit into skinny jeans. "At least no one cares how guys look." Except I care! Unfortunately, not all of us will get there and that's OK.I'm glad more people are recognizing that being fat isn't a problem of being lazy and eating Cheetos off your chest all day, but it's also not always a medical condition. But if dudes continue to be dismissed when they try to talk about body issues, it's just going to make us care more, not less. "I like/love you even though you're fat." This is something that many dudes I know have explicitly heard.This could however narrow the chances for an overweight man to find a suitable partner, and it’s not the question I was asked.Even before addressing the cause of being fat/overweight and looking at ways to get an overweight man back to a healthy weight, there are still things fat men can do to be more attractive to women. However, this is never going to be as effective as combining the above techniques with treating the true cause of the issue.
Some people scurry off but many people stay back and ask me questions or listen to other people’s questions and hear the answers.
Our mind has an unconscious mechanism (which means we don’t even realise we are doing it!
) that always looks for evidence that our current beliefs are accurate The intention of this is to stop us going crazy, but it can have unintended consequences if we don’t know about it Here’s an example of it working: An atheist and a person who believes in God both believe they are right about their belief.
It’s the same process when we aren’t happy with our results as when we are happy with our results.
Let me explain…(we gotta get a little nerdy here so you can understand but I promise it’s worth it so keep reading)…