The first and most important step in texting your ex is to maybe not do it at all. “I just saw the Hangover 2 — remember that time we were hung over? If your ex-girlfriend has recently lost a loved one it is much more appropriate to call or send a condolence card than a tacky text message.
Alternatively if you very seriously (and not because you’re drunk/lonely/horny) want to get back together, those sort of steps are best initiated over the phone.
If you know you’re not speaking then why are you texting her?!
Talking about old/new relationships takes all the tact you have inside of you and texting removes all possible tact.
Don’t get in to relationship talk, please don’t do it, I think it’s a bad idea, I’m warning you right now, really I have your back on this one. If you managed to get through texting your ex-girlfriend unscathed, then just stop.
Also, sexual information is used to promote mainstream products not traditionally associated with sex.
For example, Dallas Opera's recent reversal of its declining ticket sales has been attributed to the marketing of the more lascivious parts of its performances.