Get your information about the relationship from each other.If you’ve just started dating one of your friends, chances are you guys have friends in common.Don’t play games, be overly sensitive to each other’s feelings, and be open and honest with each other. And it’s likely that most of your friends will have some sort of opinion about the relationship.
If he knows you are not putting out for just anyone then he may see you more than just a casual sexual option.
No one just wakes up and says, “Jessica and Kate are both fun to be with. The elite guy knows he has options; this is another point that makes him so attractive to you.
But I think I’ll start being more attracted to Kate now.” If you two have a thing going already then congrats, there’s probably already attraction there. For most elite guys, their career and lasting legacy takes precedence in life. This doesn’t mean he won’t have someone who he deeply cares about and would lay down his life for.
Resist the urge to ask your friends what your new significant other has said about you, and also resist the urge to talk (too much) with your friends about them.
Instead of getting information about your feelings through a game of telephone (where you’re never getting the correct info), get you information about the relationship from each other.