It’s an age-old dilemma: are your friends on or off limits for dating?
On the one hand, you don’t want to ruin the friendship.
If he’s getting sex without a relationship, why would he ever commit?
If he knows you are not putting out for just anyone then he may see you more than just a casual sexual option.
Don’t play games, be overly sensitive to each other’s feelings, and be open and honest with each other. And it’s likely that most of your friends will have some sort of opinion about the relationship.
The more fairly you treat one another, the less likely that your friendship will be ruined if things don’t work out. That’s all fine and good, but don’t let their opinions influence your own.
The only difference is that now when you see your friend you may kiss them instead of hug them, you may hang out more, and be more intimate.You want something more but you’re not getting the same feeling back.I’m not going to give you advice, I can’t tell you what to do.No one just wakes up and says, “Jessica and Kate are both fun to be with. The elite guy knows he has options; this is another point that makes him so attractive to you.But I think I’ll start being more attracted to Kate now.” If you two have a thing going already then congrats, there’s probably already attraction there. For most elite guys, their career and lasting legacy takes precedence in life. This doesn’t mean he won’t have someone who he deeply cares about and would lay down his life for.