According to Psychology Today, about four in 10 women admit having them (31 to 57 percent), and they have them on average of about once a month. In erotic fantasies, the woman thinks: "I'm being forced and I enjoy it." In aversive fantasies, she thinks: "I'm being forced and I hate it." Forty-five-percent of the women in a survey published in the had fantasies that were entirely erotic. Only that there's a huge difference between fantasy and reality.When rape fantasies stay in fantasy world, or are acted out upon consensually in a scene, they are no different from any other fantasies. They imply nothing about one's mental health or real-life sexual inclinations.Make it happen: Ask her if she's attracted to any of her or your male friends and whether she'd consider having a threesome with you and him. Whether it's being restrained, getting spanked, blindfolding you or skirting the razor-thin line between pleasure and pain, most women (62 percent) are into some aspect of BDSM.As the Inquisitor reports about women's porn-viewing habits: "Women show a strong preference for sado-maschistic adult video viewing, with the terms 'rough sex' and 'bondage' both appearing in the top 16 search terms for women, but not for men." The control aspect in particular is a huge fantasy for women, who reported in our sex survey that one of the most important things they wish men knew was that they like to submit.But even though it's become more socially acceptable for women to assert their sexuality, there's still a good chance your chick is way kinkier than she lets on.Here are a few female fetishes your pea brain probably had no idea she had, and what to do about them.
As the mystery of female sexuality begins to unravel more with the passage of time and the explosion of media, it's always fascinating to see what secret kinks and fetishes women have that they're just now beginning to talk about.Make it happen: If you're cool with it, watch gay porn together and tell her what the guys on screen are doing right so she can take those moves and use them on you. If you're entirely not into being a part of this fantasy for her, no worries, you're not expected to be.Or, if you've got a bisexual streak, let her watch you make out with another dude in front of her. This is one of those things she can, and does, take care of on her own. Rape fantasies are, without a doubt, one of the most taboo fantasies and arguably the hardest to talk about, yet they're surprisingly common. What does it mean that some women are aroused by the fantasy of a thing that could also be a devastatingly traumatic experience?Females are also, in general, much more likely to search for threesome and group sex porn; 75 percent more often in fact.This shows that for many women, there's an inherent interest in being overpowered, or at the least flooded with sensation, two thing that are panty-soaking because it makes it hard to concentrate on anything else.