If you think about it, there is a lot riding on that first impression.
Based on the experience of my friend and I, here are some tips for the guys: never talk about your ex, refrain from getting too touchy-feely, avoid rehearsing what you’re going to say to us, and don’t steer the whole conversation.
In the end, I received two matches, but after such a delay to find out who they were, I think many of us already forgot who we had spoken to.
The details melded together and it became a big blur, at least for me.
Plus, if we had a good time, the extra cash could be put towards going to another date night in the future.In my case, one of my matches told me he doesn’t like to go out with more than one person at a time, and since he already had plans to meet someone else from the same event, he wasn’t planning to see me.I don’t know what you think about that, but my first thought was, “this is the first time you’re going out with this other person since the event.Thankfully, though, it wasn’t like the movies tend to depict it.I will say that some of the “dates” were great – conversation flowed well or I could feel an immediate connection – and others were a bit strained or awkward, feeling as if the eight minutes dragged.