I’m married, financially stable, and have a successful career.I don't care about the money, but I can't shake my sadness about my mother's choice not to provide anything, not even of sentimental value, for my brother and me should she pass away before her husband.
I have been struggling with what I discovered ever since.
Despite the nastiness of your parents’ parting, they have kept the reason quiet all these years.
Since all of you boys appear to have been happily incurious about their split these many years, it’s probably a good idea to remain that way.
In the shower, there was a definite "one of these things is not like the other" moment.
While my older brother, dad, and myself have fairly similar, if modest, endowments, my younger brother's male parts were noticeably different (and "better") than ours in almost every way possible: size, shape, even complexion (! It was like seeing a great white whale breaching alongside dolphins.