Laziness can manifest itself in several ways, but ultimately it is a spiritual issue.
Typically, the best way to address a character problem is to discuss the issue one-on-one with the person—but because anger can quickly escalate to emotional and physical abuse, it would be wise to have a mentor figure present or at least nearby during your discussion with your boyfriend. Laziness (Proverbs 18:9)A lazy person may joke about sleeping in, procrastinating on school projects and being late to everything, but these things aren’t actually that funny.
When a dating relationship takes away time with God, it may not be in the best interest of either person.
There needs to be a healthy balance so that allow individual spiritual growth as well as a dating companion.
And finally, if you continue to fall into sin together, it’s time to take a break until you can grow enough in your spiritual walk to come back together in purity. These are only three warning signs; there are several more that could be discussed (such as unequal yoking).
But if you’re in a relationship that is exhibiting any of these signs, remember that God you and wants you to be at peace.