: For some people, going to the movies is a common dating activity, but it's hard to get to know each other by just sitting in the dark.
And I definitely don’t see him as a white guy – I just see him as my guy.
We once overheard a comment from a stranger saying “where do I get myself a hot Asian girl?
” but he was obviously from a very different generation.
As a young Asian woman, I am no stranger to feeling fetishized by white males.
During the year and a half I was on Tinder, white males of or around my age sent me messages such as “you’re my first Asian”, “Asa Akira”, “you look like an Asian goddess”, and best of all, “don’t Asian girls love white guys?