Nonchalantly at some point during the date gesture to a photo hanging on the wall and tell her that’s one of yours.Fashion-wise, cop the stereotypical garb of artsy photographers.Once you customize your material to fit your chosen “strong identity” will you no doubt make others who watch you work wrongfully assume it is your particular identity that gets you the girls and not the method that powers the conveying of it. Some guys will experiment with “I’m a rockstar”, or “I’m a promoter”, or “I’m a public speaker”, but your target will either feel you are lying (in the same way we believe an “actress” is likely a “waitress”), or if they DO believe your evidence, they become intimidated when you get weighed down by the stereotype they have of you. Come up with several stories that convey how you got from being a normal kid to doing what you repeatedly do. Practice telling these stories to others to make the stories enthusiastic and natural.As those who have taken a Mystery Method seminar know, MM consists of three main areas: PART 1. If instead of answering her question “What do you do” with “I’m [x]” you can ground your present identity to her reality and harness the opportunity to convey a much richer personality. OK, you now know grounding — i.e., delivery style — and self-tailored stories are important to conveying your identity and triggering or amplifying female attraction.On the go and no time to finish that story right now?Your News is the place for you to save content to read later from any device.
First, take heed that some identities are more equal than others.You can completely fabricate a persona as a photographer, but it will be much easier to pull off if you actually have some experience at photography, or have some genuine interest in the subject. Have a dedicated studio room, where you take your dates and slyly suggest they “have the right skin tone for indoor shots”. “Well when I was little I wanted to be a painter.” “When I was a teenager I was introduced to the modeling world by a cousin who worked with models. I had a point and shoot with me and just started taking snapshots of girls getting ready for shows.Now, you’re not going to walk around with a honking DLSR everywhere you go. They loved it, and I discovered I had a better eye than a painter’s hand.” “Now I do photo shoots for aspiring actresses.But you will deck out your bang pad with the accoutrements of the accomplished photographer. It’s great to be able to have a passion and make money from it!” Seal the deal by taking your dates to local venues where you have agreements with the managers to hang your photos on the venue walls.