They like “foreigners.” It’s like somebody visited Japan one time, went home and wrote about it, and from then on everybody ran around repeating the same stuff. In fact, if you stay long enough, and you don’t hook up, then by default everyone’s hooking up but you. So in the end, I wrote the article, partly because I enjoy reading Jasmine’s site and wanted to contribute. At the end of the night, there’s always people hooking up. S., and I didn’t have to send fifty text messages before a lady’d let me pay for her entire dining experience. Jeez, for such skinny people, Japanese gals can sure pack it away. And although I’ve never met her, from what I gather she’s a very cool person. For some reason Japanese women seem to find even ugly foreign guys attractive …..” Now I don’t even know what hackles are, but if I’ve got any, I’m sure that got them up. So do foreign guys also go out with Japanese women? I personally think the “foreign guy with Japanese girl” sighting is pretty rare. Plus, Jasmine kind of got my hackles up with a previous post. She’s a German blogger, and I give her mad props for being able to write so well in English. At least getting one woman after another into your bed, is really easy, even if you’re quite ugly! Men and women are meeting each other, at clubs, coffee shops, and at the mailbox on the corner. And you probably don’t notice it much unless—-oh wait—-they’re of different races.
But now I have someone care about me and look out for my well being as much as I do for her — this is much more than we both hoped for!
Another evidence is over 280 success stories on the site. Most Japanese women on the site are in Japan and they are only willing to meet you there, so this is quite important. If you are presently not in Japan, but plan to visit Japan in a short period, you may need to select a city to visit.
Our research also shows the site did help a good number of white men meet, date, and in some cases marry, Japanese women. On one hand, it gives your potential dates some information to know you better. Tokyo seems to be most popular city on Japan Cupid, and many Japanese women live in the metropolitan area.
This may greatly improve your response rate from Japanese women.
Anyway, the monthly membership fee is only a small cost in your overall dating expense, including items like travelling, coffees, dinners, etc. You may want to send a good number of messages to the Japanese women in your desired metropolitan area. If one man sends 5 messages in one month, and another sends 50 messages during the same period, the second may get more responses, if everything else is equal. Please don't concentrate on hottest Japanese girls under age 25. It's possible the Japanese woman ideal for you isn't on the site during your first visit to Japan Cupid.